Where did it go?

Today is the last day of 2018. A year that seemed to both drag on and fly by. I looked back through my archives to figure out where it went. Going back over things, I realized that it has been a really wonderful year. The stress of Grandma’s hospitalization and fussing over holidays this past couple of months had driven from my mind the many wonderful and beautiful things that happened and that we saw and did, big and small.


January was just January-short days with a little sun and a lot of clouds.


February has two of my nieces birthdays just a couple of days, but several years, apart, They turned one and seventeen in 2018. The hat was a birthday gift from my husband, who knits, and I have a matching one.


More clouds, and a few mountains:

A short visit from my son and his friend (over Chinese New Year):


A big ship-load of cranes:


In March spring began to creep in, amid some interesting clouds:

One unusually warm day we took an outing to Washington Park Arboretum, in spite of living in Seattle most of my life I had never been. If you are ever in town you should go.

More flowers and clouds led up to St. Patrick’s Day:

On the equinox we went to Solstice Park and watched the sunset.


Our plans for my grandmother’s 95th birthday were thrown off by an outbreak of Noro-virus. We couldn’t have the party we had planned at her facility, but a few hours of phone calls yielded a wheelchair van we could rent and we went out. Fortunately (?) she had had and recovered from the virus a week before her birthday so she could go out…after all 95 is kind of a big deal.

The motley crew.


Spring really kicked into gear:

In the second half of the month we went to China to visit our son. It was my husband’s first trip so we flew in and out of Beijing so he could see a couple of the more famous sites.

The Great Wall of China

The Forbidden City


My son lives in Shouguang, which is a small city that is part of Weifang Prefecture in Shandong Province. While visiting we took in the Weifang International Kite Festival:

and Shouguang’s claim to fame, the International High-Tech Vegetable Expo:

Less famous, but very lovely is Shouguang’s garden of peonies. We spend a lovely morning there and came home with some fans painted by this gentleman:



May had big changes for me. A little one was that Amie Lu, a gift from one of our son’s co-workers, joined our household. Amie Lu is a safe travel deer. We named her Amie Lu because Amie is friend in French, and the name of her creator, Lu means deer in Chinese.

Big changes:

When we got home from China, my dear friend, Sam (my father’s dog) had lymphoma and had to be put to sleep, she was obviously failing, but it still broke my heart. I still tear up when I think about her.

Sam chasing bullheads.

A new camera: my dearly beloved Nikon P610 started to have a problem with the zoom switch in China and I needed to find a new camera before our trip to England in June. I was in a hurry so I had time to learn how to use it before our June 5 departure.

The new camera made May a month of learning for me. I took a whole lot of pictures trying to learn to take advantage of at least a few of the wide range of features before our trip.


June was really a highlight of this year, and decade, we took a trip that we have talked about on and off for the thirty one years we were married: We walked the Hadrian’s Wall National Train in northern England. We had all kinds of weather and beautiful scenery…and I made it. The walk ended on our 32nd wedding anniversary and we are still married! A few times along the way I wondered if I had bitten off more than I could chew…but I made it. We ended the trip with a few days at York and a visit to Kew Gardens.

Since Amie Lu is a safe travel deer, we took her with us. She rode mostly in my pocket, but occasionally demanded to be let out.


After two big trips with just a month between we were ready for some home time. The Puget Sound area in summer is (in my biased opinion) a “world class” beauty spot. I always try to spend July and August at home because, while some places might be as nice, I really feel like no where is actually better. We ended the month with our annual week at Mount Rainier. I love actually staying at Paradise because you can go out in the mornings before the crowds ascend.

July brought into our lives Max, my father’s new puppy. Sweet and affectionate, and the personification of energy, she burst in on us and is well on her way to ruling the roost, because, while she is smart and learning, my dad is neither teaching nor learning. Oh well, it worked with Sam.



Again this year there was a period with a lot of smoke from wildfires in British Columbia. My heart really goes out to the people closer to these mind-boggling blazes. Otherwise it was just summer.


The approach of fall.

This is the month I started the Pull up a Seat Challenge. It has been great fun to see all of the posts that the one, simple theme elicits.


October had two parts, the first three weeks of it I was in Shouguang, Shandong Province, China visiting my son. It was a quiet, just wander around and be in a regular Chinese place sort of trip where I didn’t try to do anything ambitious.

On returning home I drifted along not quite in this time zone until, a few days after I got home we got the call at about 1 am that my grandmother was being taken to the hospital. That started the second real part. Sitting in hospital rooms trying to decipher the technical gibberish and make arrangements, but mostly just waiting.


And fall was going on in full colorful swing during all of the nerve-racking lack of excitement.



In November I went downtown, shocking. I rarely do it even though it takes about 20 minutes on buses that run about 20 minutes apart. It is both familiar and intimidatingly changed. As always I decided that I want to get familiar with it again…it used to be my town. We’ll see if I do better at that in 2019 than I did this year.

Otherwise the month was Thanksgiving preparations (we built a ramp so Grandma could come) and the usual late fall prettiness (fall is my favorite time of year).

In November I also started a rather ambitious get my pictures organized and find an efficient workflow project that has made it, at least to start with, less easy to just get a post put together.


KSM-20181219-December-12The cat has learned to open the laundry shoot, and a couple of other cupboard doors. It is a bit unnerving to hear the thump when I know where everyone is supposed to be. I guess it is her way of letting us know that the attempts to have a real guest room available (it was where she has a bed) are not to her liking.

“and so this is Christmas…” and winter.

Christmas Eve the air was exceptionally clear.


My guard dog didn’t prevent Santa from visiting:


Now we are hunkered down trying to keep the animals calm during New Year’s fireworks. I don’t make resolutions, but I do try to make improvements. Maybe I’ll get my new organization system to work, and figure out a more efficient way to work with RAW files…or maybe I’ll eat a bit less and get more exercise. Who knows? Certainly not I.

Happy New Year!

Lens Artists Photo Challenge: Review of 2018

11 thoughts on “Where did it go?”

  1. What a year and thank goodness you have a new camera. So much photos to see in this post that requires more attention. I tend to look at them in more details which shows with your expertise. Thank you for the story. Don’t you just love Seattle? On a good, we could see Mt. Rainer from Vancouver Canada. Happy New Year.

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  2. Quite a review – looks like your new camera is working perfectly! As for organization, I think it’s one of the most important things you can do so give it some thought, it should be with you for a long time!!! Best wishes for a wonderful new year and thanks for joining our challenge!

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  3. Well, I am sometimes, well, often, late to the game so I am just now reading your January post. What a lot of beauty you have in your life. Or maybe I should say, what a lot of beauty WE get to see, and you capture, because I live here too and feel blessed every single day.

    Thanks for sharing your life and photographic talent.

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  4. When I clicked on this I saw it was an older post but the pictures especially caught my eye and got me hooked on reading the entire recap. I would love to visit China. May I ask what your son does there? That picture from Christmas eve is so beautiful!!!

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    1. My son teaches English at what they call a “training school” which is extra curricular. I’ve got to say that, while China was never even on my list of things I considered doing before James headed over, I have thoroughly enjoyed my visits. I wish you luck in going. Off the tourist path, I have found the Chinese people extremely warm and welcoming.


      1. I understand, oh so very well.
        My grandmother died in 2019, while we were in China. As my husband and I had been the closest to her there was a dissonance (? not sure exactly if that is the right word) in my feelings. On one hand we had been at the every time we say goodbye it might be the last time stage for a while, and we had done everything we could. On the other we were her anchors and advocates and it felt strange to not be there. My sister came as fast as she could, but Grandma was used to us. They had had trouble reaching my sister so Grandma was alone as she was failing.
        It is very hard to find the balance when a loved one is in a terminal situation.

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